I've been getting in trouble from my Madre with how far behind I am on my blog updates...so here I go trying to play catch up once again. (One day I'll get there, I promise!) The month of October was so fun. The Fall back here is something else. The East Coasters seemed to share in my love for Halloween, offering all sorts of nifty fall festivities from Spooky hayrides to awesome ward parties.
There is a farm/farmers market near us called Wilson Farms. Aside from supplying us with AMAZING produce, they do a free "Spooky Hayride" complete with a giant in the corn field, a VW spider, an alien/UFO crash and all other sorts of crazy things for the kids to check out while they get to ride on the back of a hay tractor in the month of October. (did I mention that its free...and the kids score a freshly picked apple and some candy upon completion. What could be cooler than that?) We had gotten wind of this, so when a friend came into town to visit some of her family we met up with her and her nephews to go check it out.
Spooky Hayride
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| One of Jake's best friends growing up is named Mike Wells (he was the best man at our wedding). Anyway his sister Nikki came out to help her cousin with her boys while she was having a new baby. We met up wither her and the boys and Carder just loved hanging out with them. After we had finished the hayride, we saw Brittany, Ellie and Leon getting in line, so we weaved our way back around and rode it with them again. (Carder was quite pleased to get to go twice). |
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| After the hayride we went into the market and got some freshly brewed apple cider (this place also makes fresh cider doughnuts on Saturdays in the fall...a definite must if you ever come back here). |
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| Carder visited the Spooky Hayride quite a few times in October. He went with Ellie and some friends one day on a play date, and then of course we had to take Jaxon when he came into town. |

Ward Party
October has always been synonymous with a ward party for me. Growing up we always had a big dress up party, trunk or treat and chili cook-off. Everywhere we have lived with the exception of Utah has had one of these. So I was happy to be back to a place that participated in my beloved tradition (though there was no chili and no trunk or treat).
Costumes have always been my thing. I just love dressing up (I mean seriously I'll take any excuse to dress up.) Moving in September made for October to still be an unpacking/settling in period, but I couldn't let that trump the dress up tradition. Usually I do a family theme of some sort but this year Carder wanted to be a superhero (thank you Costco for making that one so easy for me). I found this awesome Cinderella costume for Brenn, so I decided I'd be ambitious and whip up a fairy godmother costume for myself. (Whip up...ya not so much). After some image searches on the computer and some trips to Joanns I found the colors and a pattern I could semi work with to get the look I had in mind. Oh if only it were so easy. I was using nap times/some evenings to cut and start putting together all the pieces (because let's face it, if Brenn got a hold of that stuff, it would have been utter destruction). Anyway the day of the party I was going to finish up so I could accompany my little princess as her fairy godmother, and in the middle of my project my machine decided to die on me. I sat on the phone with Singer for like 2 hours trying to resolve the problem, we took it to the sewing repair shop who said they could diagnose it by next week (um did they not understand my party was tonight!) and it would have costed more than a new machine. Anyway I was determined to not be a ward party dud so I hand sewed like a mad woman. Well that costume was A LOT of fabric, and even though i had been hand sewing for hours, I just couldn't get it done (and my safety pins were still packed away in a box that could not be found). So I was totally defeated, and felt like a total halloween scrooge going to our party costumeless. Not wanting my kids to totally miss the whole party, I threw something semi presentable on and ran out the door. It had been such a chaotic day my hair was just pulled up and make up hadn't really made it onto my face. When I got home I walk in the door and see that my shirt was totally buttoned up crooked, (thanks Jake for letting me walk around like that all night) so maybe everyone thought I was dressed up like a "mad" woman after all. (So embarrassing!)
The kids had a blast at the party playing all the games, hanging out with their friends and scoring all the yummy treats and fun prizes.

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| As you can see from the white residue on his face Carder loved him some powdered doughnuts on a string |
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| Brenn thought she was so big roaming around the gym like Miss Independent with her prize baggy and chasing all the balloons |
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| The highlight of the evening for Carder was the bounce house set up in the Primary room. It totally made up for the lack of trunk or treating. |
Trick or Treating
Brittany had her baby a few days before Halloween, which brought my Mom and Jaxon into town. Thank goodness too, because Jake had class Halloween night, which meant he would not be accompanying us for trick or treating. (Um hello Boston University, do you not realize how big of a deal Halloween night is?). A family in our ward does an open house thing where they have chili and a homemade doughnut bar. So a lot of people go over to their neighborhood to trick or treat and then head on over to their house when they finish up. So that is what we did too. The thing that I am still getting used to about the East Coast is the Miles to Minutes ratio. Previously I equated miles to minutes, like if something is 5 miles away it will take you about 5 minutes to get there. Not true here. 10 miles can take you a half and hour to an hour depending on time of day/where it is. (utter craziness I tell you!). This was sort of the case here. It took us a half an hour to get over to this neighborhood. Carder doesn't nap anymore unless he falls asleep while we are driving in the car (we literally have to keep a pillow in the car for him). This was such an occasion. By the time we got there he had fallen asleep so I had to wake him up. Waking him up caused him to have a freak out and he insisted that I had to hold him, and then Brenn wanted me to hold her etc. Thank goodness for my Mama because without her help, trick or treating would not have happened this year. Carder snapped out of it a while later and he and Jaxon were troopers making their way up and down all the New England stairs to collect their candy.
Halloween made me realize how big of a difference there is between your first and second children. Brenn and Carder's birthdays are not even two weeks apart, so at each event Brenn is essentially the same age Carder was at that same event three years earlier. I was thinking back to Carder's second Halloween and how we had him walking up to all the doors saying "Trick or Treat." This was not the case for the little lady. I either pushed Brenn in a stroller or carried her the whole time. And only took her up to one door because after a couple of people searched through their candy bowls for something "suitable for a baby" (a nonchoking hazard I guess) that made me feel that she might still be a little too young for this action. Its just so weird to me that I thought Carder was so big at that size, but with her she is still my baby.
The boys were so fun to watch. A lot of the people here hold out a bowl and have the kids pick out their candy. Carder would take one and say thank you, and then a lot of times they would tell him that he could take another piece. For some reason he would never take more than one. We are going to have to work on that before next year :) My Mom and I got quite the arm work out switching off between holding Brenn after she refused to sit in the stroller.
Even with its rocky start it ended up being a rather successful Halloween night, even though Dad was MIA (hopefully that is the last time that is going to happen).
Here are some shots of me and the Kids on Halloween...
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| After hand sewing at every down moment I had over the next week or so, I was able to complete what we came to nickname the "couture costume". With the headache that thing was, Brenn might be being Cinderella for Halloween til she's 18! |
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| Carder wasn't into the Captain America mask. Though he was very proud of his Steve Rogers hair that he sported for trick or treating. |